“I’m a speaker.”
That one phrase says so much about you…and also, so little. Most people we meet react to this with comments like “Oh, you mean like a motivational speaker?”, because that is the easiest mental cubbyhole to put us in. But the reality of our profession is that there are more different kinds of speakers than most of us –even those of us who are speakers – would think exist.
Still, in that one phrase, we do identify many of the things we have in common. We are used to standing in front of audiences, and we do so for our living. For most – but not all of us – speaking also means a good deal of traveling, with the perks, and the headaches, that come along with that. Speakers with families have a special challenge, because the nature of our profession means that many of our families never know if we will be home on a particular date. But we also have a great deal of flexibility in our calendars, which means we can do things with our families that people with regular jobs only dream of.
Today, I want to reflect a little bit on the two-sided nature of the sameness of speakers. I say it’s two sided simply because there are advantages to our similarities…but there are also deep disadvantages.
On the plus side, in an association like NSA, we can find people who have similar hopes and dreams, similar trials and frustrations, and even similar issues to wrestle with. We even have developed our own arcane lingo to quickly communicate about some of the things we have in common. When another speaker asks about my “one-sheet”, I know exactly what he or she is talking about. Another great plus is that there are easy solutions available for many of our common issues. Want a to make a video? Talk to Ed Primeau, or one of the other folks who specialize in making them. Need to learn how to sell e-books? Go to Tom Antion’s Butt Camp. The list of people who help us do our work…and make money helping us do our work…is long, and fascinating. And because we all share these issues, an NSA meeting is a great place to compare notes about what is working – and what isn’t.
On the minus side, it is easy for us to believe what some people in the meetings industry would like to believe…that speakers are a generic commodity, with a certain level of sameness, that can be quantified, inventoried and scheduled like airplanes. Many speakers – and you may be one of them – participate in this process, as I do. A prospective client calls and asks for a video…and I send it. We set up our calendars online to make booking easy, automatic, and even impersonal. And many of us work with speakers bureaus who catalog us like videos in a Blockbuster store.
Don’t get me wrong…in many cases, this is a fine thing. It’s nice and convenient for a meeting planner to call a bureau and ask for a specific type of speaker at a given fee, and get it booked with a minimum of hassle, just as it’s nice and convenient to be able to grab a TV dinner at the grocery store. As someone who plans meetings – and hires speakers for those meetings every year – I understand the value of this convenience. As a speaker, I also understand the danger of it. You see, if I’m being booked “off the shelf”…I tend to become a bit like a TV dinner.
Here’s what I hear: “Oh, you’re a strategy speaker….we don’t get much call for that.”
What nonsense. What I speak about is how to do the right thing, in the right place, at the right time…how to turn vision into reality…and how to turn a me-too business into a world-beating success story. Who doesn’t get much call for that?
But the problem is…I am fitting myself into someone else’s cubbyhole. That is the danger of sameness. Because you see, once I fit into that cubbyhole…I’m going to have a heck of a time getting out. And if I want to charge more than the next guy who fits into that very same cubbyhole, I darn well better get out of that cubbyhole!
The key to getting out of the speaker cubbyhole…and staying out…is the opposite of sameness. When I talk to a meeting planner, I say – in the first minute AND the last minute of the conversation: “The reason you want to work with me is that NO ONE else is really focused on this topic…when I finish TALKING about strategy, I go out and do strategy, with dozens of different companies every year…and our 6 professionals – all former CEOs - have done nothing BUT strategy for nearly 25 years.” Why do I say this? Because…in the final analysis…this is the difference between an expert and someone giving a book report. When the meeting planner wants to know that you won’t stumble in the Q&A…that you have good, entertaining stories that will relate to your topic…and that your program will be fun and interactive…the EXPERIENCED meeting planner will look for that expertise. I also say this because it is truly the difference between my firm and other people who might do strategic planning. Others…John Morissey comes to mind…might claim a piece of what I say…but no one else can honestly say they even come close. And frankly, if I can convince a meeting planner of the importance of that one factor, I’ve made the sale.